Consider Taking Tips to Heart --DeWese

3) Don't confuse complimenting with "patronizing." Patronizing behavior is condescending and self-serving. It stinks more than insincere behavior.

4) Be a good compliment receiver. It is not necessary to reciprocate immediately when you are paid a compliment. People who are quick to answer a compliment with a compliment are seen as not being able to graciously handle a compliment. The best practice is to simply say, "thank you" or modestly answer, "gee, you have made my day."